Some quick facts about LGBTQ+ kids in foster care:
Why are LGBTQ+ kids more likely to be homeless or in foster care?
The unfortunate reality behind these staggering statistics is that kids and teens who identify as part of the LGBTQ+ community often face higher rates of abuse, neglect, and mistreatment from parents and caregivers. This abuse can lead to the child running away or entering the foster care system.
Once in foster care, things often get worse instead of better.
As of 2022, there are only 16 states with laws that prohibit foster care agencies and placements from discriminating against kids based on sexual orientation and gender identity. This means that foster care placements can refuse to house LGBTQ+ kids or subject them to harmful treatments such as conversion therapy.
How can you help?
It’s ok if you didn’t know about this issue before today, and it’s even ok if you don’t understand all the terms and nuances of the LGBTQ+ community. It’s never too late to learn.
Here are some helpful resources to get you started:
- Be a good listener. Don’t interrupt or pass judgment. Remain open: open body language, open-minded, and open ears.
- Let them know that they are cared for and appreciated. Not everyone is comfortable with physical touch, so check before offering a hug or high five, but find a way to show them they are seen and heard that is comfortable for them.
- Don’t try to change or “fix” them. LGBTQ+ kids and kids in foster care are not broken. While they may need extra support and resources, this doesn’t mean they’re bad or that they need to be changed.
Don’t be afraid to ask for help.
Whether you are a foster parent, an adoptive parent, or just someone who cares about kids, there are resources and support systems out there for you to access.
Here are a few organizations who specialize in supporting parents and guardians of LGBTQ+ kids:
Older kids in foster care need you. Visit our Get Involved area to see the many ways you can change a child’s life (and your own).